Facebook is filled with people outraged about lots of things that are indeed pretty outrageous. People are passionate about justice, sanity in government, peace, equality, and so much more. And I am entirely with them, to be honest. Having said that, in 2016, I also want to find common ground with people I’ve assumed are […]
What Gives You Life?
In 2016, I invite you to build on the life giving elements of last year. For instance, I am doing that with some brand new offerings that are coming up very soon (for more info, go to Winter Programs). But to do that, you need to spend just a little time with last year…. What […]
We Can’t Go Forward Until We Have Acknowledged the Journey…
As most of you know, I’ve spent much of the last year planning a major conference. And last week, it happened! 225 people from around the world gathered in San Diego to explore systemic constellations work together. That’s my co-director James Woeber and myself, welcoming the crowd on our first day. I have a few […]
Honoring the Work of our Ancestors
I got lots of wonderful responses to my last video. Thank you everyone! Here’s my next one. In this one I tell a personal story about my dad, that I hope will give some inspiration to those trying to build your businesses, as well as give us all an opportunity to honor the work our […]
Should Healing Have a Price?
Do you wonder about what should and should not have a price? I’ve recorded my first vlog! (video blog) It took me years to get around to doing this, full of resistance, and then, of course, I discover that not only do I enjoy doing these, but I think I may have a flair for […]
Where Are Answers When There Are No Answers?
There are certain kinds of stucknesses that are self-reinforcing. What do I mean by this? Let me ask you: do any of these binds sound remotely familiar? Either I have my integrity as an artist/ practitioner and I am poor, or I “sell out” and have enough money to pay the bills. Either I stay […]
When You Want to Say Yes, But Can’t…
We’ve all been there. A behavior we want to stop. A habit we want to start. Quit smoking. Eat better food. Get into action about our business. Start to exercise. Stop getting so angry. In all these instances, we want to say yes to something that would be very, very good for us. These are […]